Thursday, June 17, 2010

THE DEMISE OF FATHERHOOD






Having a married husband is the No. 1 anti-poverty weapon in the United States.  Today over 40% of American kids are born to single mothers.  




Being a father today is now merely a social convention, providing another life alternative life style, that over half the men choose not to accept.   




WHERE IS MY FATHER?


Have a great Father’s Day Dad, wherever you are.

Now that I am born I don’t see my dad.  I heard his lovely deep voice for the last 9 months as I was growing in mom’s womb, but now it is gone. Other babies in the nursery seem to have their dads.

I don’t have anyone to show me how to throw a ball, ride a bike, swing a bat, or teach me to wrestle. I have no one to play hide and seek or make me just laugh.

Now, in the eight grade, my penis gets hard and I don’t know why.  Mom has no answers.  I know dad would figure it out and tell me.

I like sports because the coaches all look like by dad.  But no one is telling me what I am doing wrong in sports so I can get better in sports.  I hear President Obama’s dad left him, and he turned out ok.  I guess there is hope for me.

In high school now, I feel swarmed with pushy pretty girls who know a lot more than I do.  I am not sure how to handle this. The girls really try to get close to me.  I don’t feel prepared for all this.   I like when the girls bother me,.  I really need someone to love me and tell me how important I am.   I with I could talk to dad about my feelings. Oh dad, where are you?

All the teachers in my high school look and act just like my mom.  They seem to create a lot of stress for me.  Many of my buddies also don’t have dads around.  Smoking and pot seem to make me calmer.

I don’t know how it happened, but my friend is pregnant.  I can’t believe I can be a dad.  Perhaps her mom can get her out of this jamb.   I sure need you now dad.

I got a good job and want to live with my girl friend for a few more years.  She sure is pushy and wants to get married or she might leave me.  Dad left me, and I cant let my soul mate leave me too.  Ok honey; let’s tie the knot.

So we are having a baby.  I think this might screw up our good relationship.  Who need a third party butting in?  Dad, is that why you left?  Who has the guidebook to being a father?

All the pretty women at work are on the make.  They want to offer me good sex, and one night stands.  Variety seems to be the spice of life in this office.  Hope I don’t get caught.  I think  Dad did.





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